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III. There is a ritual cadence to these sessions. The therapist speaks in scaffolding phrases—“Tell me more about that”—and somehow, in that neutral architecture, specificity grows. A gesture that once meant “I am hurting” is re-named; a boundary that never existed is proposed. The family learns new verbs: negotiate, request, repair. These verbs are awkward at first, like a second language spoken with an accent of doubt. But they let people practice being generous to themselves. Cory tries on apology and finds it doesn’t fit; later she tries on confrontation and discovers it is less terrifying than continuing to carry the silence.