In Melayu culture, family is highly valued, and relationships are often built on a hierarchical structure. The elderly are accorded great respect and are considered the pillars of the family. Children are taught from a young age to show deference to their elders, using honorific titles such as "Pak" or "Mak" (meaning "Mr." or "Mrs.") to address them. This hierarchical structure is also reflected in the use of polite language, where individuals use specific pronouns and phrases to show respect.